8 Rules of etiquette when hiring an escort for a date

Sep 06, 2022

Are you feeling lonely? Bored? Or want a new experience?

There are many reasons why you might consider hiring an escort. Maybe you have a busy work schedule that prevents you from going on conventional dates, or maybe you just want some companionship. Whatever your reasons, there are some rules of etiquette you need to keep in mind.

1. Make Sure You’re Not Unkempt


This is probably one of the most important points on this list. For the most part, you should treat hiring an escort as if you had an actual date. You wouldn’t turn up to a date wearing worn-out clothes, with unwashed hair and uncut fingernails, so you shouldn’t do that with an escort.

Nothing will turn meeting with an escort awkward faster than if you show up to meet her unwashed and dressed poorly. On the other hand, if you dress to impress, she’s more likely to want to impress you. An escort is almost certainly going to spend a lot of time and effort on her appearance, so it’s only fair that you should too.

2. Be Prepared for Conversation

Something else that can quickly kill the atmosphere during a date with an escort is a lack of conversation. Awkward silences can quickly kill the mood for both parties.

If you’re someone who’s not so outgoing, it won’t hurt to prepare a few topics of conversation in advance. There’s no need to plan anything too in-depth; just try to have a few relatable or interesting things to talk about during the night.

If there are any awkward silences, you know you already have something to talk about prepared.

3. Don’t Get Too Personal


While you should have plenty of things to talk about when you hire an escort, you should make sure you don’t ask any questions that are too personal. She might not want to share details about her personal life with you.

There are many good reasons for this. For example, her family might not know what she does for a living, and it could cause her some serious problems if her profession were ever to come to light.

On top of that, it’s not unheard of for clients to obsess over an escort and try to find out where she lives or her social media accounts. Stick to more general topics, such as her hobbies and interests.

4. Answer Her Questions


An escort might try to gauge what sort of person you are by asking you some personal questions. It might seem unfair that she can ask personal questions of you when you can’t ask her. Understand that she’s probably doing this to assess if the situation is safe for her.

If you act defensive and don’t answer, it may cause her to get nervous. For the date to go smoothly, you should just answer honestly.

5. Be Honest About What You Expect from the Escort


When hiring an escort, don’t expect her to read your mind. You should be honest about what your intentions are from the very beginning. Don’t try and spring things on her in the middle of the date.

Before you meet in person, the escort should be fully aware of your plans and expectations. Not every escort has sex with their clients. If this is something you expect, you need to make it explicitly clear from the very beginning.

6. Don’t Get Drunk


It’s natural to feel nervous about meeting an escort, particularly if it’s your first time. Perhaps one drink to calm your nerves is a good idea, but anything more is asking for trouble.

Being drunk for the initial meeting probably isn’t going to go down well and will make a bad impression. If you do intend to get intoxicated during the date, you should let the escort know beforehand.

Not every escort wants to drink with you. If you intend to get drunk, it’s probably best you find someone who’s on the same page.

When having sex with an escort, you should still bring your A game. This is something you probably won’t be able to do if you’re ten beers into a drinking session.

7. Have the Exact Fee Ready


When hiring an escort, it’s customary to have the payment ready to go. The money should be the exact amount requested and ideally, it should be all in paper money, no coins.

Also, don’t expect the escort to provide you with change. Having the correct amount is your responsibility.

You should put the money in an envelope. She may want to count the money, so to make things less awkward, you should offer to let her count it, so she doesn’t need to ask.

It’s always a good idea to count the money together, as this prevents any conflict or misunderstandings later on.

8. Treat Her with Respect


The golden rule when hiring an escort is to treat her with respect. Even if you make some mistakes in the etiquette, as long as you’re respectful at all times, you shouldn’t have any major issues.

Remember: at the end of the day, an escort is a professional and you should treat her as such. While an escort might have a good time with you, you shouldn’t expect your relationship to go beyond a transactional one. You wouldn’t expect a chef to come and cook in your kitchen for free after you’ve eaten in their restaurant once, after all.

Also, you should make sure you only hire an escort you’re attracted to. Escort services almost always have pictures of their workers available, so make sure you take the time to find one you find genuinely attractive.

Have Fun and Be Safe


Hiring an escort can be a satisfying and rewarding experience. One of the big mistakes that first-timers often make is hiring an escort before they’re ready.

So don’t be impulsive. Take your time, and things are sure to go smoothly.

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